The Icing on the Cake: Why the Kindergarten Year is Critical

hammad ali • January 4, 2021

It’s that time of year again – we are all beginning to think about enrollment for the 2021-2022 school year. We hope all the families in our special community will continue with us for another year, but this article is aimed at one specific group of you: the parents of next year’s kindergartners.

We find this tends to be a critical year for many families. Some folks turn to Montessori initially because they are looking for a daycare or preschool experience for their child before they become eligible to attend their local public schools. Once that time comes, it seems natural to make the transition.

We see things a bit differently (of course!).

What’s so different about the final year of the primary cycle?

Many parents want to know what is so special about the third year of the cycle. It is helpful to understand that Montessori programs are organized with the intention that a child will remain for the duration. We embrace the multiple years our guides get to spend with each individual child, and the way we teach reflects as much.

Our curriculum is one that spirals; this means that children are exposed to the same skills, but in very different ways, as they get older. This work begins with the very concrete, as that is what our youngest students are able to learn from. As children age, however, they become ready to learn skills in a more abstract way. So everything they have been practicing in their early primary years comes full circle and all the puzzle pieces begin to click into place.

Another very important element of the final year is the children’s opportunities for leadership. One of the greatest benefits of participating in a multi-age classroom is that when a child is younger they have plenty of older role models. When they are older, they have a chance to be a role model. Our kindergartners lead our younger children in so many ways. They even help teach some lessons, which is one way we as guides know that they have fully mastered academic material.

How will my child’s academics be affected?

There is no doubt that Montessori takes a different approach to academics than most conventional education settings. The irony is, while our primary goal is not to focus on academic rigor, but to honor it as one element of the developing child, in the long run our standards tend to be much higher and our students come away with a much deeper understanding of the content.

Take our math program for example – many of us grew up learning to memorize the processes to complete various mathematical operations. Some of us struggled at times when things didn’t make sense. In a Montessori school, the materials allow children to understand what exactly is happening with the numbers, allowing them to form mental pictures that make the math make sense on a much deeper level.

This approach does take time, but in the long run children not only have a firm grasp on a wide variety of content, but they are able to think creatively and independently, to be self-driven or work cooperatively, and they have a passion and joy for learning and the world around them. School isn’t just about memorizing facts, it’s about education in a whole-child sense of the word.

But – our local public schools are free…

We understand that independent school tuition can be a burden for many families, and we want our programs to benefit as many children as possible. We don’t want finances to stand in the way of Montessori education for your child. If paying tuition is a challenge, please consider applying for financial aid; we do our very best to help families make it work.

Making the decision

Before you make your final decision, we encourage you to think about what you would ideally like your child’s educational experience to be like. Figure out what your values are and how you define them as a family. Once you do, we would love for you to sit and observe in one of our classrooms and do the same at any other school you are considering.

Our doors are open. If you still have questions or concerns, call us any time to chat.

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In Part One of this series, we began exploring the eight Montessori principles that Dr. Angeline Stoll Lillard examines in her landmark book, Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius . As we saw, what makes these principles so compelling is that Dr. Maria Montessori's intuitions about children were a precursor to what decades of developmental science have since confirmed about how humans actually learn. In this second and final installment, we pick up where we left off, examining the remaining principles and the research that brings them to life. Whether you're a parent, an educator, or simply someone curious about what effective learning really looks like, these insights offer a fascinating window into the remarkable alignment between one woman's careful observations over a century ago and the science we have today. If you haven’t already, be sure to check out the previous four principles: Movement and Learning Are Deeply Entwined Choice Improves Both Learning and Well-Being Children Learn Best When They're Genuinely Interested Rewards Undermine the Motivation They're Meant to Build PRINCIPLE FIVE: Children Learn Powerfully from Each Other When you walk into a Montessori classroom, you’ll notice that children are almost always working near or directly with other children. Peer learning is one of the most effective forms of learning, and Montessori classrooms are deliberately structured to make it a constant. Much of this learning happens through observation. When a child watches a slightly older classmate work through challenging material, they're absorbing the technique and the possibility. They begin to see what they can do! Peer observation often drives a spontaneous "explosion" of writing or number awareness, spreading through a class (e.g., one child suddenly writing everywhere, then several more following). The mixed-age grouping in Montessori classrooms amplifies this. Younger children always have a visible horizon of what's coming next. Older children consolidate their own understanding by helping younger ones (which is one of the most effective learning strategies known). And the large, stable class community means children have time to build genuine relationships and observe one another across many contexts over several years. PRINCIPLE SIX: Meaningful Context Makes Learning Richer and More Lasting Children remember far more when what they're learning is connected to something real and purposeful. What the Research Shows In one study, three-year-olds were asked to memorize lists of items. 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What the Research Shows Carol Dweck's research, now widely cited, demonstrated that a single sentence of feedback can set children on divergent trajectories. Children told "you must be smart" after succeeding at a problem later chose easier tasks, enjoyed them less, and performed worse after encountering difficulty. Children told "you must have worked hard" sought harder challenges, recovered from failure more readily, and improved their performance over time. The difference is in the delivery of one sentence! The implications are profound for how we talk to children about both their successes and their struggles. In a Montessori classroom, the adult’s role is carefully defined: to observe, to connect children to materials at the right moment, to step back when a child is productively engaged, and to step in only when something is genuinely unproductive or unsafe. This requires a great deal of precision and restraint. An adult who constantly intervenes, corrects, and directs trains children to look outward for approval. An adult who observes and offers at the right moment helps children learn to look inward. Consistency and long-term relationships also matter. The multi-age grouping in Montessori means that children spend multiple years with the same adults, building the kind of attachment and trust that research consistently links to stronger learning outcomes and healthier social-emotional development. PRINCIPLE EIGHT: Order in the Environment Supports Order in the Mind The Montessori classroom's distinctive aesthetic reflects a deep understanding of how the environment shapes cognition. What the Research Shows Research consistently shows that noise, clutter, and unpredictability are cognitively costly for children. When an environment is chaotic, children spend precious mental energy managing uncertainty rather than engaging in learning. Temporal order matters as much as spatial order. The three-hour uninterrupted work cycle (a hallmark of Montessori classrooms) gives children long enough stretches of focused time to move from initial engagement to deep concentration and, eventually, to the kind of absorbed flow that produces real intellectual development. Frequent interruptions (bells, transitions, whole-class pivots) train children to work in short bursts and to constantly reorient. The three-hour cycle allows children to go deep. Children in Montessori classrooms are also responsible for maintaining their environment by returning materials to their proper place, caring for plants and classroom spaces, and treating everything with consideration. This care builds the child's relationship to order as something they participate in creating rather than something imposed from the outside. Even noise levels matter in ways that go beyond comfort. What the Research Shows Research cited by Dr. Lillard found that across all ages, noise was one of the most consistently negative influences on cognitive development, partly because it interferes with the auditory discrimination that underpins both reading and vocabulary development. The quiet that characterizes a well-functioning Montessori classroom is the natural result of many children deeply absorbed in their own work. What makes Dr. Lillard’s work so valuable because it validates the Montessori method and gives the why behind practices that can otherwise seem puzzling from the outside. There are important reasons why Montessori teachers don't correct every error, why there are no gold stars, why the classroom is so quiet, and why children seem to do the same work over and over. This approach to education is deeply rooted in creating conditions in which children's natural drive to learn can develop as fully as possible! To learn more, visit our school here in Milwaukee. And let us know if you would like to borrow a copy of Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius by Dr. Angeline Stoll Lillard! It is one of the most research-grounded books available on Montessori education, and we highly recommend it for anyone who wants to understand the deeper logic of Montessori!
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